There are lots of way to get noticed by users apart from sending messages saying «Hi, how are you?». You can use the «Wink» feature, if you're not sure how to start a conversation. Go to the profile of the person you want to talk to, and click «Or» next to «Message», and select «Wink». That user will then receive a message that you have winked at him/her.
When you first start chatting to other users, you can use our hints to help you get started. In the chat window, click «Start chatting» and we'll pick a fun greeting to send from you to the user you want to talk to.
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